How To Find Your True Beauty

How To Find Your True Beauty

Then she proclaimed with enthusiasm, “I’m so beautiful!” No shame, no apprehension–with full assurance. She knew beyond a shadow of a doubt she was exactly that–beautiful! 

Then she encouraged her little sister to join her on the chair. She exclaimed, “look, Grace, you’re so beautiful!” as Grace admired her own reflection in the mirror.

There delight in themselves was so sweet and innocent. They felt beautiful and they believed they were beautiful

Then it hit me–what happened to us between 5 years old and now!?

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The Big Key To Living The Life You Were Created For

The Big Key To Living The Life You Were Created For

What do you do when you make a mistake?

Do you beat yourself up verbally? Or, do you say, “That’s okay, I’ll get em’ next time”?

Unfortunately, I think most of us have to would say the former. Many of us beat ourselves up verbally without mercy. I remember my old response (and somedays still) to a mistake used to be, “You’re so stupid Heather. You never get it right.” 

"Negative self-talk is not humility. It’s self-defeat. It’s a toxic habit that muddies our ability to see ourselves as loved and treasured by God." Tiffany Bluhm

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How To Believe The Truth About Who You Really Are

How To Believe The Truth About Who You Really Are

Last post we talked about our self-image. Our self-image is defined as the idea, conception, or mental image one has of oneself.

We learned that changing our self-image first means we need to find out what our Creator says about us. If you missed it, you can read it here.

Friends, we’ve believed a lie that’s created a false image of ourselves for far too long–now it’s time to change that false image to the truth.

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How To Discover Who You Really Are

How To Discover Who You Really Are

When you look in the mirror, who do you see? 

Do you see someone that is beautiful and made in God’s image? Or, do you see someone that needs to lose some weight, a complexion that is blotchy and hair that never seems to cooperate?

When someone gives you a complement, what do you say?

Do you believe them and say, “thank you”? Or, do you deflect the complement and think to yourself, “it couldn’t possibly be true; they’re just saying that to be nice right”?

When you read God’s Word and you see, “You’re fearfully and wonderfully made,” how does it make you feel?

Do you feel loved and cherished? Or, does your heart feel defeated?

Self-image is defined as

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How Do You Know What You’re Worth?

How Do You Know What You’re Worth?

Do you know what you’re worth? Are you secure in who you are?

Are we worth something only if we accomplish great things? What if we live a simple life? Are we still worth something? 

If you have lots of money, does the make you secure in your worth? What if your broke right now? Are you worth any less?

Have you ever found yourself doing something that you hoped would make you feel like you matter, but found it just left you empty?

I've struggled with living a performance based life most all of my adult years...

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